7320 SW Hunziker St., Suite 204 · Tigard, OR 97223|(971) 222-8166|contact@discovercounseling.com
Grief Counseling · Tigard, Oregon & Online

Grief doesn’t follow
a timeline. And you
don’t have to carry it alone.

Loss changes you. At Discover Counseling, we provide compassionate grief counseling for people navigating bereavement, complicated grief, and the many other losses that don’t always get named — relationships, health, identity, and the life you expected to have.

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At a glance
SpecialtyGrief Counseling
FormatIn-person · Telehealth
LocationTigard, OR · Oregon online
InsuranceMost major plans accepted
ApproachesTrauma-Informed · Person-Centered · Narrative · CBT
AvailabilityAccepting new clients
You might be here because

You’re grieving — and the world expects you to be over it by now.


Grief has no schedule. The ‘stages’ aren’t a road map, and there’s no arrival point where grief is finished. What grief is, is a natural human response to loss — one that deserves space, witness, and skilled support rather than a timeline or a prescription for how to do it right.

At Discover Counseling, we provide a space where grief can be whatever it is for you. Not hurried, not minimized, not compared to anyone else’s experience. Just held, processed, and gradually integrated into the life you’re still building.

You’ve lost someone important and the weight of it isn’t lifting
Grief feels complicated — mixed with relief, anger, guilt, or ambivalence
The loss happened a long time ago but still affects you deeply
You’re grieving something that isn’t a death — a relationship, a health diagnosis, a version of your future
Well-meaning people keep telling you it’s time to move on — and you’re not there
You’re worried your grief is abnormal, too much, or going on too long
What we address

Types of loss we support

Bereavement

The death of a spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend, or pet

Traumatic & Sudden Loss

Death by accident, suicide, overdose, or other sudden or traumatic circumstances

Complicated Grief

Grief that has become prolonged, stuck, or significantly impairing

Ambiguous Loss

Grief for someone who is still living but changed — through dementia, addiction, estrangement

Disenfranchised Grief

Losses that aren’t socially recognized — miscarriage, infertility, pet loss, relationship endings

Non-Death Loss

Grief for health, identity, relationships, careers, or the life you expected to have

Our approach

Grief work isn’t about getting over it. It’s about learning to carry it.


The goal of grief counseling isn’t to stop grieving. It’s to help you process the loss in a way that reduces its most painful grip, integrate it into your ongoing life, and find a path forward that honors both what you’ve lost and who you still are.

We don’t pathologize grief or rush it. We create space for it — and help you move through it at a pace that feels right for you.

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Person-Centered SupportYou-led grief work

A warm, non-directive space to grieve in whatever way is authentic for you — with a therapist who witnesses without minimizing or rushing.

Narrative TherapyMeaning-making

Helps you honor the story of what you’ve lost and find a way to carry it forward — integrating loss into your ongoing narrative rather than trying to leave it behind.

Trauma-Informed CareFor traumatic loss

When loss was sudden, violent, or traumatic, grief and trauma overlap. Trauma-informed approaches address both layers.

CBT & Coping SkillsPractical support

For grief that has become stuck in unhelpful patterns — rumination, avoidance, isolation — CBT provides practical tools for re-engaging with life.

Common questions

Things people ask before reaching out.

Answers to common questions about this service.

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How do I know if my grief is ‘normal’?

There is no normal grief. Every person grieves differently depending on their history, their relationship to the person lost, their support system, and countless other factors. That said, if grief is significantly impairing your ability to function — work, care for yourself, maintain relationships — or if it feels stuck and unchanging months after the loss, therapy can help.

Can therapy help with grief that happened years ago?

Yes. Grief doesn’t have a statute of limitations. Many people carry loss for years without ever really processing it — sometimes because they were told to move on, sometimes because life demanded they keep going. Grief that was never fully processed can be addressed in therapy at any point.

What about grief that isn’t from a death?

Grief is grief. Loss of a relationship, a health diagnosis, infertility, the end of a career, or estrangement from family are all real losses that deserve real space. Disenfranchised grief — loss that society doesn’t fully recognize — can be particularly isolating. We take all forms of loss seriously.

Do you have experience with suicide loss?

Yes. Loss by suicide is a particular form of traumatic grief that often involves complicated feelings of guilt, confusion, and unanswerable questions alongside the grief itself. We hold this with care and without judgment.

Ready when you are

Grief deserves space — not a timeline.

Reach out and we’ll help you find a therapist who will sit with you in this, for as long as it takes.